I made this blog to warn women and tourists about ISSANKA PIERIS from Aluthgama - Bentota and beach boys in Sri Lanka, especially in the south west coast (Bentota, Aluthgama, Negombo, Mirissa, Hikkaduwa, Unawatuna, ...).
Issanka Peiris ( or Isanka Peiris, Esanka Peiris, Sanka Pieris, many ways to write his name... ) is from Aluthgama / Bentota beach and he's a really dangerous man.
The beach boys are the boys who work with tourists (guide, surf teacher...) . They are born in the touristic area so they know well tourists and especially women as a lot of female tourists just come to have sex with them ( and pay them a LOT of money or give them expensive gifts) . They saw hundreds and hundreds of them.
Some of this boys are dangerous, really manipulative men, they are really smart and know how to convince people.
This is my personal story but If u have a look at some travel forums about Sri lanka, many women wrote about boys
like Issanka and how they got trapped. "My" story is unfortunately quite common.
I had many troubles because of him, even with police (because of his
drug stuff), he destroyed part of my life and im not the only one! I was with him from august 2012 to august 2013 but he had many girlfriends at same time...
if u have other informations about Issanka or if u have been a victim
of sri lankan men, write an email to this adress :
How to recognize ISSANKA
about 1m70, muscled, curly hairs, he wears
often tanks top and shorts, he wears a lot of bracelets, really dark
skin, tatoos (1 big tribal on the left arm, 1 heart on the belly,
flowers on the forarm ) . He had a white tuktuk. U can see pictures of him under this post.
In Aluthgama everybody knows him well. But nobody will tell the truth
about him because they are all scared or some are even worse than him. He can be really violent (he hits
people, shouts, insults, breaks everything and he has been violent with me too) , he has lots troubles with
police. He stays often in Aluthgama's main road, to "guide" tourists. He stays in the market on
monday and helps tourists. He is often on Bentota beach to practice surf. He works sometimes in a boathouse in the river
road. He brings often tourist at Nebula's restaurant. He stays sometimes in Hikkaduwa, in Mirissa, in Kataragama (he has lots family
there) or in Arugam bay. His
family lives near the river (small house where his mum-dad-brother-sister-2 dogs live) . All the family help him to "trap" tourists. Never trust them too, they will seems really nice and really sad about their son's behaviours but in fact they help him!! They are so cunning.
Issanka is always really helpfull with tourists, kind, smiling, charming, he can speak lots languages (good english, german, bit of russian, of french) , he is really polite... That's how everything starts...
What HE says :
- He never takes any heroïn and hate drug dealers
- He has been in jail because of a bad policeman (never his fault!)
- He had really few girlfriends because he is romantic guy, different than the others, and he is waiting for the good one (of course the good one is you), never touched any other women since he meet u
- He stopped drink
- His back is broken because of a motorbike accident
- Some rich women want to marry him but he always refused because he wants to find real love
- He never proposed to anybody to marry him or have baby with him
- Everybody likes him because he is different,
- Lots people are jealous of him, thats why they are not nice with him
- He never brought any woman at home, his family never meet any of his girlfriends before
His behaviours :
- He seems really sensitiv man,
- He can cry a lots, with "real" tears, in front of u (i still dont understand how he can do that!),
- He can be crazy jealous and accuse to cheat on him all the time, when u walk in the street he says that u look at all the men...
- He makes a lots of gifts (with the money he get from sex with old tourists) and brings everyday at home all the stuff u like (the food u like ...),
-He speaks a lot about tsunami time and war time to make u feel sorry for them
- He is always really romantic: for example, he will bring flowers everyday for you and put it in your hairs (that's his big "thing")
- he can send you 50 texts per days to tell u how much he loves u, call u days and nights for hours, spend hours and hours on skype with u to make u believe that he loves u... but its just "his job", this time that he uses contacting u is just to convince u and get => MONEY
- When he introduces u to people he says that u are his wife, the love of his life, says always nice things about his girlfriend in front of everybody. But at home he tells u how much u bad girlfriend, bad white woman who comes just to have sex with black man (thats his way to manipulate, because its actually what HE DOES)
- He can be really soft, really lovely, kind, romantic,helpfull when u have a trouble and sometimes he can be really crazy, insulting, violent (probably when he needs his heroïn)
- He tries to make u crazy until u hurt yourself or himself, and make you believe that U have a problem. He really put my life in danger many times, hurted me and made me hurt myself too.
- When u start to have doubt about him, he says that he will kill himself, he tries to frighten u (he loves to use a knife to scare u!!)
- He brings u often to temple to show u how much he is a good boy, a good buddhist, and pray for u and ur couple!
- He always get fone calls and directly desapears for one hour minimum (to get some heroïn)
- He comes back home with lots money (from sex or drug dealing) but this money desapears in one day, sometimes in one hour and he says that he just lost it...
- He always ask some money ( generally 1000 rupees ) and say that he will give it back soon (sometimes he doesn't, sometimes he does, after fucking old tourists for money)
-when i understood that he is involved with drugs, he even brought me to see a policeman to convince me that he is "clean". In front of him, the policeman lied (at this moment the policeman was not working and he was alone, but i know that he was a real policeman). In fact, he didnt say anything : when issanka asked him in front of me if he takes or sell drugs, the policeman answered "no". but when issanka went anway, i still continued to look at this policeman and behind issanka's back he told me that "yes, he does".
--> I tell this story to show how much Issanka is manipulative and not scared about anything to convince u!!!!
-This man is a big heroïn addict and alcooholic, i found out everything only after many months because he knows how to hide everything (he never did it in front of me and came back "home" only when he was clean.)
Very smart, always perfect excuses, never show any weekness.
-He is romantic to better "trap" you. He can do anything for u, whatever u ask, all the most romantic stuffs to proof his love... But what he can't do if u ask: telling the truth, let u come with him when he get this "strange calls", let u come with him when he goes to meet "this tourists" (except if u stay in the tuktuk), never let u use ur fone anymore after he used it...
He will "loose" u fone after he used it, or break your simcard
- His back is broken because of a desease that he got from a bacteria. He got this desease because of heroïne. He had an operation in february 2013 that costed 1 million rupees, paid by another woman.
- I'm quite sure that he is an heroïn dealer too (lots people called him - he gave them a price, and then desapears for hours...)
- He uses lots different fones, simcards and skype accounts to communicate with dealers and women
- He get lots money from lots differents women, and he uses his sister's banking account (Indika) to get money from women. So his sisters (Indika and Sachila) help him to trap girls.They always protect him and lie a lot.
- He has really dangerous friends (murderers, rapists, junkies, dealers). They brought me everywhere but i was not allowed to say anything and to see anything (i had to stay in the tuktuk). Some guys really scared me, thats how i started to find out the truth...one day, i didnt stay in the tuktuk and i followed them, they saw me and directly brought me home. After this day, i was not allowed to go with him anymore when he meet people. Police even came to check me, they thought that i was an heroïn dealer!! what a shock!! I never took any drugs in my life, never smoke, dont even drink! fortunatelly, the issue was good but when i remind all this, i think i could get really serious problems with that horrible man!!!!
... and i dont know yet all the truth about him ! but for sure i will find out more and more!! I know he has lots troubles with police too. When i left the country in summer 2013, (just after a discussion with one of his other girlfriend on the fone), he was in jail (he said because he drove without licence, but it was because of drugs).
But he's gone court and they let him go out... i suppose that another victim paid a lots of money to make him go out...
Warning!! if u know him and if u find out something about him, he will tell u more lies, he will NEVER admit, and he will have very very very good excuses all the time.
He will make u believe that EVERYBODY is crazy : if u see this website and tell him you found a website about him, he will say that I am a crazy ex girlfriend, that i'm jealous woman . (he said same to me about his ex and about the personns who tried to warn me).
That's what he does, tells that other people lies when HE actually does.
He loves to say that women are crazy about him and that they lie because they are jealous and in love with him.
Warning! This guy brings tourits for tours in Sri Lanka! Please, never go with this man or his friends or family! He drives without licence, drunk or high because of heroïne. If he doesnt drive, he will come with you in the van, try to cheat on you with money (he will convince you that he gives you the best prices, that he is the only one who don't cheat on tourists). Don't make any business with him, don't let him follow you in the shops... all his friends do same, but i can't give the name of everybody here... Just be really carefull with them!!!
my advice : NEVER GET CLOSE TO THIS MAN, TO HIS FAMILY